So let's pretend that you have a workflow already set up and all you want to do is create this assignment email:
In SharePoint Destroyer Designer navigate to your workflows
once you've selected your work flow, edit it.
now that you're ready to edit your work flow, add a step and inside that step create a "start custom task process" action. In the picture below the task is called "Business Card request Task" this is a name I gave it, originally it should start as "Task".
once you've opened the task, under Customization click "Change the behaviour of a single task"
this will load 5 default steps
- Before a task is assigned
- when a task is pending
- when a task expires
- when a task is deleted
- when a task is completed
You are concerned with the second one "Pending". Add the action email user.
Once you select the user add the appropriate fields
To Create the link address click the link button circled in green above.
Click the fx button to build the URL for your link
Select the current task, and pick the Form_URN, this will give you the task item url
Keep hitting ok followed by a publish and give it a try.